By Astro D’ Great

From a young age, men are constantly told:
“Focus on making money; the women will come later.”

It sounds like simple advice, but when you break it down, what does it really mean? That love is conditional? That a man must first prove his worth through wealth before he can be loved? And if that is the case, is it truly love or just an attraction to success?

Love or a Transaction?

Society often paints the picture that a man must first struggle alone, endure hardship, and build his wealth before he is deemed worthy of love. But here’s the real question: If a man can only attract love after he becomes successful, does that love belong to him—or to his success?

Genuine love should be about connection, trust, and shared experiences, not a financial milestone. When love is delayed until after wealth is achieved, it starts to feel more like a transaction than an emotional bond. If a woman only shows up when the success is visible, how can a man trust that she would have stayed during the struggles?

The Value of Love Built Together

To me, the most valuable love stories are those that start from the ground up. A relationship built on mutual support, patience, and perseverance carries a deeper meaning. When two people face challenges together, grow together, and succeed together, their bond becomes unshakable.

True love isn’t about finding someone after success; it’s about finding someone before success and building that journey together. A love that can endure both the struggles and the victories is the only love that truly matters.

Does True Love Still Exist?

In a generation where materialism often overshadows emotional connections, many have begun to question whether true love still exists. While it may seem rare, real love is still out there—it’s just harder to find in a world that often prioritizes financial security over genuine companionship.

Men shouldn’t feel pressured to “buy” love with their success. Instead, they should seek relationships that value effort, commitment, and shared dreams. Because, in the end, love that stands the test of time isn’t measured by money—it’s measured by the strength of the journey taken together.

Final Thought

If love only arrives after success, can it truly be called love?
For me, the answer is simple: Any love story that wasn’t built from the foundation together holds no real value.

— Astro D’ Great